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The same arguments.
The same distance.

A different way
forward.

A faith-integrated, research-based program for Christian couples — guided step by step through 7 conversations that change how you relate.

Developed by Dr. Sue Johnson, creator of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and Kenneth Sanderfer, one of the leading EFT practitioners for Christian couples.

You love each other

So why does love feel so far away?

1. We keep having the same arguments — and nothing ever really gets resolved.

2. We love each other, but lately we feel more like roommates than partners.

3. There’s a distance between us we don’t know how to close.

4. We want real intimacy: emotionally, physically, spiritually. But something keeps blocking it.

5. We believe our marriage was made for something deeper. We just can’t seem to get there.

6. We’ve tried talking it out. We’ve prayed about it. We’re still stuck.

Why does this work, and why it’s different

Dr. Sue Johnson

Dr. Sue Johnson

Creator of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) — the most extensively researched approach to couples therapy in the world, with over 20 outcome studies demonstrating long-term results.

Kenneth Sanderfer, LPC

Kenny Sanderfer, LMFT

One of the leading EFT practitioners in the Christian community, and co-creator of the Created for Connection program. Kenny brings decades of pastoral and clinical experience working with Christian couples.

A clear path back to connection

Step 1

Enroll and get immediate access

The full programme is yours the moment you sign up. Work at your own pace — no schedule, no sessions to book.

Step 2

Move through 7 guided conversations together

Each conversation combines short video teaching, real couple demonstrations, and guided worksheets. Work through them side by side or independently and come together to share.

Step 3

Have the conversations that change everything

Not conflict management. Not communication tips. These conversations go deeper — to the emotional patterns underneath the arguments — and give you a way back to each other.

Ready to try a different kind of conversation?

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$147 • Full Access

7 conversations for a lifetime of love

Each conversation combines short video teaching, real couple demonstrations, and guided worksheets — worked through at your own pace, together or independently.

1.

Recognizing the Demon Dialogues

The patterns that keep pulling you apart and how to see them before they take over.

2.

Finding the Raw Spots

The hidden wounds and sensitivities that make everyday conflict feel so much bigger.

3.

Revisiting a Rocky Moment

Slowing down a painful interaction so you can understand what really happened underneath it.

4.

Hold Me Tight

Learning how to reach for each other in a way that creates safety, comfort, and closeness.

5.

Forgiving Injuries

Facing painful moments honestly so healing and rebuilding trust can begin.

6.

Bonding Through Sex and Touch

Exploring physical intimacy as part of emotional connection, safety, and loving attachment.

7.

Keeping Your Love Alive

Building new habits of connection so the change lasts long after the conversations are done.

Watch Dr. Sue Johnson explain the heart behind this approach

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See why emotional connection is the key to lasting love.

I only wish this programme had been available — and that we had used it — at the beginning of our marriage. It might have saved us from the greatest strife in our married life. It is well-researched and yet practical, well-reasoned and yet emotionally engaging. The spiritual content doesn’t feel shoehorned in — it faithfully brings together the truth of God’s love and proven clinical research. I cannot recommend it highly enough.

Jeremy, married 30+ years

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Not just another
Christian marriage
programme.

Most faith-based marriage resources offer encouragement and scripture. Created for Connection does that, and goes further. It’s built on 30 years of attachment science and the most extensively researched approach to couples therapy in the world. Your faith brought you here.

This programme gives you the practical path your faith is pointing you toward.

Ready to try a different kind of conversation?

Join thousands of Christian couples who have used Created for Connection to move from distance and conflict to the closeness their marriage was made for.

$147 • Full Access
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